Picture an army built like a flexed bicep: loud, showy, and forever spoiling for a fight. It looks tough on a poster and brittle in the field. Macho warriorism sells a fantasy of courage that confuses swagger with strength, noise with competence, and impulse with leadership. Modern defense runs on capacity—trained people, reliable logistics, clear law, disciplined restraint, and smart alliances. Bravado burns that down. It wastes talent, invites errors, and turns neighbors into enemies. If we want a force that wins in the real world, we have to retire the costume and fund the craft.

Once upon a time, we at least pretended to be decent. We taught our kids to share, said “please” and “thank you,” and gave the occasional damn about the well-being of others. But now? We meme our way through cruelty, monetize humiliation, and elect leaders who treat compassion like a contagious disease. Something has shifted—and no, it’s not just politics or culture. It’s something deeper: a fundamental inversion of what it means to be human. That shift—from benevolent behavior to malevolent traits—isn’t just a quirk of the times. It’s the blueprint of decay. It’s the junkification of everything.

It’s in the air, isn’t it? The tension between genders. A war of words. A swirl of online rants and real-world frustrations. You scroll through social media and feel it—anger, sarcasm, blame. Somewhere along the way, conversation turned into confrontation. Misogyny isn’t just back; it’s louder, more organized, more shameless. But here’s the thing: behind the rage is a story. A human story. And understanding that story might be our only way out of the war zone.

Every once in a while, a revolutionary idea slips under the radar—not in the form of a protest, a policy, or even a pamphlet—but as something quieter. Something deceptively simple. Like… doing absolutely nothing. That’s right. No emails. No chores. No “working on yourself.” Just a useless day. And in this over-caffeinated, hustle-obsessed, productivity-worshipping culture of ours, that might be the most subversive thing you can do.

Imagine a world where your social status, income, education level—even your romantic prospects—are predicted by a number derived from your DNA. No, it’s not some dystopian science fiction plot. It’s already happening and most people have no clue it’s underway.

Sleep is one of the most overlooked pillars of mental health. We glorify hustle culture, praise early risers, and treat sleep deprivation like a badge of honor. But what if I told you that your lack of sleep isn’t just making you tired—it’s actively damaging your ability to think, process emotions, and stay sane? In fact, chronic sleep deprivation might be one of the biggest unspoken mental health crises of our time.

Leadership isn’t about barking orders, hoarding power, or staging photo ops with a forced smile. It’s about something much rarer: honesty, trust, and a genuine willingness to serve. But in a world that rewards deception, where do we find real leadership? More importantly—how do we create it?

Behavioral science offers strategies like the "Mary Poppins Principle," which turns mundane tasks into fun activities to enhance motivation. By adding enjoyment to necessary tasks and using nudging techniques, behavioral science helps drive better decisions and lasting changes. From exercise routines to healthier choices, this approach shifts how we engage with everyday habits, leveraging fun and subtle changes to increase adherence and success.

Combat fear-based propaganda and understand political fear tactics. Learn how these influences affect society and discover ways to build resilience.

In the teachings of Buddhism, "hungry ghosts" are ethereal entities that exist within the cycle of rebirth, notably as one of the six realms of existence.

Music has an extraordinary power to captivate our minds and move our souls. It has the ability to transport us to different emotional landscapes, evoke memories, and inspire us to dance. 

Breaking habitual behavior patterns requires self-awareness, courage, and a willingness to challenge our own beliefs and assumptions. It can be a difficult and sometimes painful process, but it is necessary if we want to live fulfilling and meaningful lives.

My wife Marie and I are a mixed couple. She's Canadian and I am an American. For the past 15 years we have spent our winters in Florida and our summers in Nova Scotia.